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Q: I really need some help I like this girl alot but she tells me she likes me one minute and the next she just wants to be friends. I'm destroying myself thinking about her and what she could be doing since she lives so far away.I am afraid my friend and her might be together. We only went out for three weeks but I cant get her out of my mind.She says she is scared that I will be aggressive and push her like her last boyfriend...But I totally respect her. I want her back so much, I really just don't know what to do.Any help and advice is warmly received..Thanks! Paul

A:Well Paul, She seems to be confused about what she really wants. This is probobly due to the last relationship she had. Not to mention other issues she might have. She might feel that you are smothering her just a tad and that probobly scares her. She might not be used to having a guy that treats her right and with respect. That probobly why she is leaning twords a friend of yours. It seems to me you guys were good friends and it might be too soon to decide wethere you should be more. I think she needs you now more as a friend than anything else. And it might just lead back to what you guys once started having. You just need to give her time and a little space

Q:I really like this guy Matt he knows it too.I have told him a million times.He seems to like me too.The problem is he calls every once and awhile,but then I wont talk to him for a couple of days.It really confusing.I dont get it.It seems he doesnt wana be with me,but then he tells me he really likes me.Its stressing,plus he talks about sex all the time.Sometimes I think he just wants me for sex.I really like him and he seems to like me too.I wana ask him out.Since he wont.I dont know if i should though.I mean does he really like me or what??If he does why wont he ask me out??should I ask him and how??


A: Hi adriane,
Well it seems to me as if your crush is just playing hard to get. And he might not quite know what he wants. It sounds like he does like you, but you need to just take things slow with this one and give him time. If he really does like you he will keep coming around and it will be because he likes you for you. Just be yourself but don't do anything your not ready for. And if you really feel like you need to know what's going on, don't be afraid to ask him. He might be feeling the same way you do

Q:My b/f just dumped me and broke my heart! It is soo hard getting over him! Do you have any tips to help me get through this?

~Broken Hearted


A:Dear Broken hearted,
Im sorry to hear about your breakup. And I know it must be hard. I have been through it before and my best advice to you is #1...Try to get out as much as possible. It will help you alot if you can do something that occupies your mind so that your not thinking of him all the time. #2 Try and find out why he might have broken up with you so that maybe you can learn from it. It could help you in future relationships.And #3 Take a complete break from him, don't try and be friends right away,just give eachother space for a bit. And then become friends if you chose. Who knows, space might be all you two needed to make things work out. Just make sure that over everything you do, take things slow. If your hurting it might take awhile to really get through this, but you will. Just keep a pausitive attitude about it. I can promise you there will be others.